Are you suffering from heartbreak? It stinks, doesn’t it? And it’s painful. It makes my heart center literally hurt.
Although nothing works better than tincture of time, here are some easy spells to help heal your broken heart.
You Have No Power Over Me Charm
You’ll need a bowl of water, a small jar, a candle, some rosemary (dried is fine), vanilla extract, cinnamon, thyme, and the necklace of your choice.
Put the necklace into either the water or into the small jar if it cannot be put directly in water.
Light the candle and let some wax liquify.
Then pour the melted wax, the herbs, spice, and vanilla into the water.
Stirring clockwise, say, “You have no power over me” while visualizing the person who broke your heart.
As you wear the necklace, feel its protective energy surrounding you.
Let-It-Go Eucalyptus Vapor
Fill a bowl with hot water, add a couple of drops of eucalyptus essential oil, drape a towel over your head and inhale the steam.
Going through a breakup can put us on an emotional rollercoaster. Hurt, anger, sadness, nostalgia—it can be overwhelming. Eucalyptus will help release what you’ve held onto for too long.
Emotional Release Bath (or shower)
Ok, this will take more than five minutes but you’re worth the extra time. You know you are.
Gather ½ cup of sea salt, ½ cup Epsom salt, rose petals or lavender for self-love and peace, and lemon peel for emotional cleansing (put these in one of those mesh bags you have saved). If you have some hyssop (lightens your vibration) or angelica root (for healing), toss those in, too.
Run the bath, pour in the salt, hop in, and let the petals and peel steep. Cry into the water if tears come. Come to a peaceful realization that this connection must be severed because it is no longer serving your highest good (or theirs). When you’re done, stay in the tub as you drain the water, visualizing your negative emotions going down the drain with the water.
If you’re not a bath person, make a scrub with equal parts white and brown sugar, a bit of jojoba, almond, or coconut oil, and the rose petals or lavender and some grated lemon peel. Use this scrub in the shower and again see your negative emotions running off you and down the drain. Careful—the shower floor may be slippery afterward.
Whichever spell you choose, when you’re done, put on your comfy clothes and settle on the couch with a cup of tea made with rose petals and a touch of honey.
Be gentle with yourself. Know that Spirit loves you deeply and eternally. A brighter future awaits you.