I recently got a new book, Sex Witch. I’ve been wanting to write about it, but I lost it. I never lose anything. Seriously. Was the Universe sending me a message?
But we all know how to find something lost. Buy another one. So I did. And two days later I found the original book.
There are so many good ideas and spells in Sex Witch: how to tap into the Divine Feminine, creating a sigil (a symbol with magical power) for self-confidence, a bedroom blessing… There are also some wild ideas like how to consecrate sex toys, a spell to unleash your kinks, harnessing the power of the orgasm… I was having a difficult time choosing what to write about.
I decided to do some bibliomancy. I set my intention and opened the book. The first thing I saw was Hex Your Rapist. On the facing page was Balance Karma. Oh, my. No.
Do hexes work? Yes. Do I want to take on that energy, the energy of anger and revenge? Never. Even the spell to balance karma was to speed up the negative payback on someone else.
I’m not saying you shouldn’t be angry. If rage bubbles up, go ahead and seethe with fury. But use it to empower you, not to harm someone who harmed you. When you’re ready, send all their negative, hurtful energy back to them with light and love. Let the Universe deal with balancing karma.
There is a time for anger. There is a time for sobbing over the loser who broke your heart. And then there is a time for feeling beautiful and glamorous and knowing you are worth so much more. Here’s a Sex Witch’s suggestion for Boldness During a Breakup.
Make a playlist of your favorite songs and name it I’m Too Good for You. Listen to it while you do your hair and makeup so that you feel insanely hot, because after all, you are insanely hot. Write HOT BITCH on the mirror. The go forth, party, and get some! If your ex sees you, excellent. If your new lover sees the message on your mirror, even better.
