I had a dream the other night that I was in a parking lot and saw a genie’s lamp in the back of some guy’s truck. I didn’t hesitate, I grabbed it. My sister was with me in the dream, and she started rubbing the lamp and wishing for money. I snatched it away from her and told her we had to think carefully before we wished. Sure, we could wish for money, but we had to get the wording right.
In real life, my first wish wouldn’t be for money (and I don’t think it would be my sister’s first wish either). What about you? What do you want? If the genie popped out of his lamp and offered you one wish, what would it be?
In order for you to attract your desire, it’s important to think of the best way to word your intention. But, more importantly, your words have to resonate with the vibration you’re sending out into the Universe.
Let’s say you want to find love. But let’s say you also believe you can’t find true love until you lose weight. You may attract someone, but it’s going to be someone who also thinks you aren’t loveable until you lose weight. The resonance will be with someone who treats you the same way you treat yourself. Love resonates at a high vibration. Thinking you don’t yet deserve love does not.
The point is that we have to check our beliefs and attitudes about ourselves as we send our dreams out to be fulfilled. We can’t fix the dissonance if we don’t know what it is.
One way to fix that lack of resonance is with affirmations. I am loving, loveable, and loved. If, when you say that to yourself in the mirror, your reflection tells you that’s BS, try saying I’m beginning to see that I am loving, loveable, and loved. Work with that until you know it’s true.
Speaking of resonating, will you be joining me for the Alpha Female retreat on October 26th? We’ll be gathering at Three Waters Reserve in Brodhead, Wisconsin, a beautiful 70-acre nature preserve along the Sugar River. It provides both a stunning backdrop for our time together and a locus for our outdoor immersion walk. Through simple creative exercises, sound healing, and immersion in nature, you’ll leave feeling refreshed, renewed, and revitalized. Alpha Female: It resonates. Here’s the link to register.
