What do you remember from the Christmases of your childhood?
I remember being at my grandma’s house with what seemed like a hundred crazy Italian relatives all drinking and talking at once…
Coming home from church on Christmas Eve and listening to NORAD on the radio as they tracked Santa’s flight…
Not being able to sleep Christmas Eve as I waited to see what Santa brought and to open presents…
I know there were probably Christmas concerts at school and visits to Santa at the mall and going out to buy a tree, but those things haven’t really stuck with me.
So before we drive ourselves crazy trying to “make memories,” let’s take a moment to realize that it’s probably not the things we work so hard to get perfect that will be remembered. If we rush around until we’re exhausted, what our loved ones are bound to remember is that were cranky.
Beautifully wrapped gifts? The perfect tree? A holiday party that looks like Martha Stewart catered it? Does anyone (besides you) really care?
Here’s how to create some real magic this season: Be Present.
Notice your surroundings. Be grateful for all you have. Accept things as they are now. Spend time with people who make you feel happy and fulfilled.
This time of year is about renewal and hope.
Which is exactly what I wish for you.
May you be surrounded by good people who love you. May you take the time you need each day to care deeply for yourself first. May your days be filled with genuine meaning and purpose. May you improve your self-awareness, incorporate your shadow, and find new light shining from your eternal soul. May always feel the presence of Spirit holding you in a warm embrace.
And may you know how much our having shared this year has meant to me.
With light and love,
